9 Best Self-Defense Techniques To Save Your Life

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Let’s be real—if you want the best shot at surviving a real attack, you should be training Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu (BJJ). It’s one of the only martial arts that lets a smaller person escape a stronger attacker, particularly for women.

The problem?

Most people don’t have the time or commitment to master BJJ—and self-defense can’t wait.

That’s where these 9 brutal self-defense moves come in. They target an opponent’s weakest points, exploiting pain, shock, and instinctual reactions to give you the upper hand. These are the best self-defense techniques predators hope you never learn—but today, we’re breaking them down.

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9 Best Self-Defense Techniques To Protect Yourself

1. The Groin Strike – Simple & Devastating

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If you only have time for one move, make it a groin strike. It’s fast, effective, and requires zero skill to land.

✅ Use a front kick, knee strike, or hammer fist to maximize damage.

✅ A successful hit causes immense pain, nausea, and temporary paralysis.

✅ Works against attackers of any size—no training required.

2. The Eye Gouge – Total Disruption

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A brutal but highly effective move, an eye gouge will completely shut down an attacker.

Use two fingers or thumbs to drive into the eye sockets.
Aim to crush or scoop the eyes—this forces attackers to retreat immediately.
If an attacker is on top of you, this is your best bet to break free.

3. The Throat Punch – Stop Their Airflow

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One solid hit to the throat can incapacitate even the biggest opponent.

Aim for the Adam’s apple with a quick, sharp strike.
Can cause instant gagging, coughing, and disorientation.
Even a light hit will make breathing difficult, giving you time to escape.

4. Axe Stomp – Crushing Power

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This move generates more force than a standard stomp, especially with boots. It can break bones and cause serious damage in an instant.

If an attacker is on the ground, make sure they stay there.
The heel is your weapon—swing it backward and downward onto the attacker’s face, ribs, or groin.

5. Chokes – Shut Them Down in Seconds

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A well-executed choke can end a fight before it starts.

Use a nutcracker choke (grabbing the sides of the neck) or a rear naked choke.
If done right, an attacker loses consciousness in 3-5 seconds.
Works even if you’re smaller or weaker than your opponent.

6. Elbow Strikes – Close-Range Knockout

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When you're in tight quarters, elbows become devastating weapons.

Strike under the chin, to the temple, or the back of the neck.
Elbows generate short-range power—great for surprise attacks.
If an opponent doubles over, follow up with an elbow to the base of the skull to end the fight.

7. The Long Knee – Maximum Impact

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A knee strike with forward momentum can drop an opponent fast.

Grab the attacker and pull them into your knee for extra force.
Aim for the soft tissue in the abdomen or groin.
If they’re still standing, transition into an upward knee strike to the face.

8. Stomps to the Groin or Knees – Keep Them Down

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A fallen attacker is still dangerous—finish the job.

Stomp downward on the groin for maximum pain and nausea.
A stomp to the side of the knee can destroy the joint, making it impossible for them to stand.
Perfect for ending an attack when an opponent is on the ground.

9. Hammer Fist to the Back of the Neck – Lights Out

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A hammer fist is like a sledgehammer to the skull.

Target the base of the skull, right where the spinal cord meets the brain.
Works best after a groin strike or knee to the stomach, when the attacker bends forward.
Causes dizziness, disorientation, or even unconsciousness.

Final Thoughts: There Are No Rules in a Real Fight

If someone attacks you, they’re not playing by the rules—so why should you? These nine self-defense moves are designed to stop threats fast, whether you’re fighting off an attacker or escaping a violent situation.

Learn them. Practice them. Be ready to use them.

Because when danger comes knocking, you either fight back, or you lose.

Stay safe!